Fighting With The Ones We Care For The Most

This has been making me crazy for the past couple of months. Why do we fight and argue with the people we care about the most? I have heard different theories and thoughts but this is what I came up with. It is because we know that they will love us no matter what. A good friend and I have been at it for basically since we became friends. We fight over stupid things and it drives me nuts. We are two different people and have complete opposite opinions. Somebody asked me "If you two fight so much, then why are you friends?" To be honest, I don't know. It would be easy to just say forget it. But I don't want to because we have had just as many great times as we had bad ones. And the great times over write the bad. I think we continue to be stubborn people because we care about each other and we know that we will always have each other's back. It is how we work. We fight, we make up. It is an on going cycle. Now some of you might say "Well that isn't very healthy." And you are probably right. It isn't. But I think the most important thing is that we get through...every single time. Everyone fights with the people they care about. Whether it is your parents, a husband, a wife, a boyfriend, a girlfriend, or like in my case a best friend. It is bound to happen. I think the most important thing to do is to just dwell on all of the good times you had together and not live with holding a grudge. I admit, I do that as well. Like I will say "You really hurt me when you did this..." And the truth of the matter is, that happened a year ago. It is time to move on.

So basically the moral of this blog is to forgive and cherish the people you care about even when you fight and argue.