If I like you, I'll tell you.

Everybody knows that I am a flirt. Its true. I totally am. However, it gets me into trouble. Most of the time when I am flirting, I don't realize that I am. This tends to make boys think something that isn't true. I'm a pretty honest person and I don't like head games. If I like you, I'll tell you. It kills me to be told that I am leading people on. That is not my intention at all. I have an outgoing and playful personality and it gets mistaken for flirting. I joke around a lot and this can be misinterpreted as hitting on someone. I have learned that I need to watch what I say and watch how I am acting around guys. That sucks. The people that I get accused of flirting with and leading on, are my good friends and the last thing I want them to think is that I want something more. I realized years ago that some guys are super flirty and they are just joking around. I figured guys knew that girls do that, too. I am one of those people. I say really corny pick up lines, I say completely sarcastic remarks like "wow, you are just so smokin' hot!", and I just assume that they know I am joking. Yesterday, I was stunned to hear what one of my friends said. They said that I was leading on this guy and he was a tad bit annoyed and upset that I was flirting with other people. I didn't know what to say except to keep apologizing. I feel awful. I never meant to make anyone upset. I guess I just have to watch what I say and make it even more clear that I am just messing around and being obnoxious.